These also could be just very brief glimpses of someone’s cleavage or of someone in an every day position that is sexually titillating to the viewer.”This woman’s partner is not unusual.
Many sex addicts complain that they are helpless because there are just so many sexy women around and they can’t help looking at them.
They feel deprived of sex, even rejected by the women they look at and this paves the way for them to escape into their other sexually addictive behaviors such as internet porn. As I discussed in a prior post it may not be possible for most of us to tune out sexy women.
At that point you can hopefully manage to redirect your thoughts away from sexual objectification and into seeing the person as a person (a student, someone’s daughter, etc.) and to wish them well.
One of the partners of sex addicts who wrote to me challenged this idea.
He is very subtle about his looking, yet he is able to get a potent hit, even though his eyes only “flick” briefly onto a woman’s body.
So basically, someone could look for under three seconds and get a potent sexual hit.